Finding me

No One Is Coming to Save You—And That’s Okay

Dears,

No one is going to hold your hand—at least not when you truly need it. That’s a hard fact you’ll come to realize the hard way.

You shouldn’t wait for anyone. And this brings me to the concept of expectations—oh dear, the way we expect someone to magically understand us, to pull us out of our darkest hole.

But hell no. Even if someone does help, you still need to learn how to pull yourself out on your own. Yes, sometimes we need support, and sure, there are rare people who might be there for us. But let’s be real—that’s rare.

So, get your shit together. By yourself.